受害者宣传和暴力预防
The 瑞吉斯大学 受害者宣传和暴力预防 (VAVP) department serves students, 工作人员, and 教师 at 瑞吉斯大学 by providing advocacy 支持 services as well as training and education regarding preventing and addressing interpersonal violence (sexual assault, 暴力的关系, 和跟踪).
- Advocacy 支持 services include assistance reporting to the school and/or police at the survivor's request, 安全计划, 法院伴奏, 情感支持, 和更多的.
- 预防暴力的工作包括培训, 演讲, 以及由同龄人主导的校园教育项目.
VAVP seeks to create a campus culture that celebrates and normalizes healthy relationships by providing education, 支持, 对学生的治疗, 教师, 和工作人员.
去一个安全的地方. 如果情况严重到你担心自己的人身安全, 拨打911或校园安全303.458.4122. 联系你信任的人寻求支持. 注意一些工作人员, 教师, 你的RA需要报告一些你与他们分享的信息.
如果您需要保密支持，请联系:- 受害者维权部的助理主任 & 暴力预防(2022年12月到达): vavp@microsoftmeshpack.com
- 咨询和个人发展办公室:303人.458.3507
- 大学部级:303.458.4153
- 蓝板凳24小时热线:303.322.7273(校外资源)
如果你需要医疗援助或对收集证据感兴趣, it is best to seek out a hospital or emergency room with a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE) program. 有下列医院可用:
丹佛健康医疗中心:
邮编:丹佛班诺克街777号，CO 80204
303. 436.6000 or 303.602.3007
Sexual assault medical care is available at Denver Health 24 hours per day, 7 days per week. 无需预约. Just go to the main desk and say you’d like to see a SANE nurse – that will allow you to be seen quickly and wait more privately.
保留证据, 比如服装, 表, 短信, 如果你正在考虑调查或刑事案件，其他的联系方式是有帮助的. 虽然你的第一个想法可能是处理掉这些物品或洗澡, 试着抓住证据，等到SANE检查结束后再洗澡.
如果你想找个保密律师陪你去医院, 联系303 Blue Bench.322.7273(全天候开放). 如果你想讨论你的选择，并在校园获得保密支持, 联系咨询和个人发展办公室，电话是303.458.3507人，或者是大学部的303人.458.4153.
即使你不想进行调查或刑事案件, 寻求医疗救助可能很重要. 这可以帮助你识别和治疗受伤, 解决性传播感染的可能性, 可能还会检测约会强奸药物.
约会暴力或跟踪从来都不是幸存者的错. 相信你的直觉. 如果你觉得自己不安全，你可能就是不安全.
如果你有紧急危险，请拨打911. 如果你在校园里，你可以打电话给校园安全303.458.4122.
如果您需要保密支持，请联系:
- 受害者维权部的助理主任 & 暴力预防(2022年12月到达): vavp@microsoftmeshpack.com
- 咨询和个人发展办公室303.458.3507
- 大学部303.458.4153.
你也可以联系丹佛安全屋24小时信息和危机热线303.318.9989. 工作人员会帮你设计一个安全计划, 给你当地法律的信息, 权衡各种选择，比如寻求保护令, 并将您介绍给其他服务机构.
不回应或试图与跟踪者或施虐者沟通. If you are in private and they are making you uncomfortable, try to make your way to a public place.
同意是伴侣之间对特定行为达成的协议. 同意必须是明确的、相互的，并且在没有骚扰或胁迫的情况下获得. 同意也可以在任何时候撤销, 在任何活动中, regardless of whether or not you or your partner have participated in the same activity on previous occasions. 当某人喝醉、昏倒或睡着时，不能给予同意. 最明确的同意形式是口头上的. 作为一个负责任的伙伴，不要想当然. 问问.
Keep a record of the frequency, type, and content of the stalker’s or abusive person’s actions.
You can request escorts to and from class as well as other 支持 services to help you feel safe on campus. 联系 Kassandra Alberico，平等机会和第九条协调员，排名303.964.6435 讨论你的选择.
如果你经历过性侵犯, 骚扰, 跟踪或家庭暴力-支持是可用的. 在里吉斯大学，你会发现周围都是资源. We are committed to cultivating a safe and respectful community 在哪里 gender- and power-based behaviors are not tolerated; survivors have the 支持 they deserve.
什么是同意?
为了让个人与他人进行任何类型的性活动, 在性活动的每个阶段之前和期间都必须征得同意. 同意被定义为肯定, 积极地给予, unambiguous and voluntary agreement to engage in a specific sexual activity during a sexual encounter. 为了获得同意，一个明确的“是”，无论是口头的还是其他形式的，都是必要的. 不能从没有“不”就推断出同意."
目前或以前的关系不足以构成同意. 一个受恐惧影响的人是不会同意的. 15岁以下的未成年人永远不能表示同意, or by a minor under the age of 18 in certain situations depending on the ages of both parties or in instances 在哪里 the adult is in a position of trust. 一个睡着的人不能给予同意, or by an individual who is mentally or physically incapacitated either through the effect of drugs or alcohol or for any other reason. Consent may also not be given by an individual who was under duress, threat, coercion or force.
Incapacitation: Incapacitation is a state 在哪里 a person lacks the ability to make rational reasonable decisions including an inability to understand the who, 什么, 当, 在哪里, 性行为的原因和方式, 或者无法完全理解性行为的细节. 饮酒或吸毒可导致丧失行动能力, 疾病, 无意识, 停电, 睡眠, 精神残疾和其他情况.
支持幸存者
If you think someone is going down the road of disclosing you may try to gently interrupt and remind them. This gives them the choice to disclose, or to speak to a confidential resource instead.
如果有人透露他们经历过不正当性行为(性侵犯, 暴力的关系, 或跟踪), 让他们知道你相信他们说的话.
了解你的报告结构. Unless you are a confidential resource, you will need to report the information shared with you. 如果你不确定向谁汇报，请与行政主任联络 & 第九条协调员在303.964.6435
Remind the person that information they share with you can be kept private but not confidential. 不过你得做个报告, 他们还有很多选择——他们可以和你一起去做报告, 当有人伸出援手时，他们可以选择不参与, 等. 一份报告并不自动意味着会进行《AG九游会在线官网》的调查.
将该人转介至 机密资源:
- 咨询和个人发展办公室，303.458.3507
- 大学事工和耶稣会，303人.458.4153
如果幸存者感到羞愧或内疚, reassure them that the incident was not their fault and that their feelings are understandable. 通常幸存者觉得其他人会质疑或贬低他们身上发生的事情. 让他们知道你相信他们. Limit the number of questions that you ask as this can make a person feel you doubt them or that they need to prove 什么 happened.
避免提出可能暗示责备或质疑幸存者行为的问题, 如, “你为什么回到他们的房间?或者“你为什么不早点告诉我??或者“你为什么不反击??“你可以在不知道性侵细节的情况下表示支持. 问一些开放式的问题，比如“你感觉怎么样??或者“我能帮什么忙??” 给 them time and space to share with you as they are ready to do so and understand that they may never choose to share detailed information with you.
你能做的最有帮助的事情之一就是倾听. 让他们知道，当他们想和你谈话时，你可以倾听. 避免评判、建议和分享你的观点. 只是听. 允许幸存者自己做决定. 如果他们向你寻求建议，提供几个选项让他们自己选择.
即使是最小的选择也能开始恢复他们的力量感, 在袭击中被拿走了吗. 例如, 让他们选择想和你谈话的地方, 他们是否愿意拨打危机热线, 等.
而拥抱某人或握住他们的手可能是一种自然的倾向, 询问他们是否需要这种支持是很重要的. Physical intimacy that may have been fine before the assault may not be fine for awhile after the assault. The right for the survivor to choose the type and timing of physical intimacy is integral to their feeling of safety.
当你认识的人受伤时, 感到无数种情绪(生气)是可以理解的, 悲伤的, 无能为力). 如果幸存者是你身边的人, 经历许多与他们相同的反应也是很常见的. Talking about your feelings with the person who has been assaulted can be overwhelming to them and exacerbate how they are feeling. 考虑自己寻求支持.
咨询和个人发展办公室的咨询师(303.458.3507) are here to help and can provide a confidential place for you to talk about your own experience.
蓝色的长凳, 这是丹佛市为性侵受害者提供的社区资源, also provides a confidential 24-hour hotline 工作人员ed by advocates who are there to help at 303.322.7273.
让他们知道你相信他们有能力治愈. People are resilient; they can and do recover from the trauma of sexual assault.
里吉斯大学禁止任何约会, 浪漫的, or sexual relationship between an employee/教师/affiliate 教师 and any student over whom that employee has any instructional, 监督, 建议, 或评价责任. 违反这项政策的员工将受到纪律处分. 这项政策力求提供一个没有性骚扰的环境. This policy is rooted in the recognition that 教师 or 工作人员-student relationships may be inherently unequal and contain an element of superiority or power.
Consensual 浪漫的 or sexual relationships between employees in which one party maintains a leadership, 必须报告对另一方的直接监督或评估作用. This applies to relationships between employees and relationships between employees and contractors. 这适用于扮演监督角色的学生, 比如住校助理和研究生助理以及他们监督的学生. Persons with direct 监督 or evaluative responsibilities who are involved in such relationships must bring those relationships to the timely attention of the EO & 第九条协调员，或人力资源总监.
Involvement in consensual relationships will likely result in the removal of the employee from 监督 or evaluative responsibilities, or removal of the other party from being supervised or evaluated by the individual with whom they have established a consensual relationship. 报告可直接向上述个人之一提出, 或透过网上申报表格(载于条例内) & 标题IX网站). Failure to self-report such relationships can result in disciplinary action for an employee. 员工被禁止制造, 参与, or otherwise influencing decisions affecting an employee’s progress or standing or which may reward or penalize an employee, 与该员工目前或过去有过性关系或恋爱关系的人.